Don't do anything for your personal sense gratification. Do everything for Ká¹›á¹£á¹‡a's sense gratification.
Just like the gopÄ«s, they used to go to Ká¹›á¹£á¹‡a. These gopÄ«s, they were married, because in India twelve years, thirteen years girls are married still. I've told many incidences.
So from childhood they are friends, small children, but the girls are married early, so they go to their husband's place, thirteen, fourteen years. But because they had, they prayed to KÄtyÄyanÄ« when they're not married, they prayed to KÄtyÄyanÄ« that "Ká¹›á¹£á¹‡a is so beautiful. Please give me Ká¹›á¹£á¹‡a as my husband."
Ká¹›á¹£á¹‡a is all-attractive, so Ká¹›á¹£á¹‡a fulfilled their desire, and that is vastrÄá¹‡Äm. Of course, these things are not to be publicly discussed, but still you are little interested in Ká¹›á¹£á¹‡a. So all the gopÄ«s, girls, before their marriage, they prayed to KÄtyÄyanÄ« that "You give me Ká¹›á¹£á¹‡a as my husband." So Ká¹›á¹£á¹‡a..., it is not possible socially, but Ká¹›á¹£á¹‡a makes such a plan that He accepted every one of them as His wife. That is vastrana-lÄ«lÄ.
Vastrana-lÄ«lÄ, the girls were taking bath in the YamunÄ, keeping their clothing, garments, on the shore. Still in India, especially in Punjab, the practice is that where the women take bath, strictly no man can go there because they put their clothings on the shore and they dip into the water naked. So this was being done, and Ká¹›á¹£á¹‡a took their clothings and got up on the tree. So they begged Ká¹›á¹£á¹‡a, their friend, "Ká¹›á¹£á¹‡a, this is very bad. Why You have taken away our..." "No, you beg the clothes with folded hands, then I shall give you." (laughter)
So you have read this story, you do not require, but the idea is that "You wanted Me, all of you, as your husband. Now I'm fulfilling your desire. I'm seeing you naked." Because a woman can be naked only before the husband. No one else. This is chastity. A woman cannot be naked anywhere, just like in the club, naked dance. This is most abominable.